AITA for using some of my kids’ Christmas money for Christmas dinner?

Christmas is supposed to be a time of joy, family, and togetherness—but for my family, it turned into a season of resentment. With money tight after losing my job, I thought I found a practical solution to make sure we could still enjoy a proper Christmas dinner. But instead of gratitude, my decision sparked anger, hurt feelings, and silence from my kids. Now I’m left questioning whether I did the right thing or if I crossed a line.

A Christmas Clouded by Tension

The Money From Grandma’s Side

From Gratitude to Grumbling

Was I Justified or Just Wrong?

Let’s find out what are the opinions of other Redditors about this Christmas story.

What I saw as a necessary sacrifice, my kids saw as betrayal. To them, it wasn’t just about the money—it was about taking something that belonged to them without asking. While my wife and I felt our choice was justified in the moment, the fallout has left our home colder than ever. Maybe I was just trying to hold Christmas together, but in the process, I might have been the one to break it apart.

What do you think?

Written by Abeera Anwar

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