AITA for Snitching on an Older Student Who Was Technically Breaking the Rules?

Support groups are often formed around shared identities, experiences, or boundaries—whether that’s age, stage of life, or personal challenges. These boundaries can help participants feel seen and understood, creating a sense of community and safety.

But what happens when someone no longer technically fits the group’s criteria, yet still seeks connection? It raises questions about inclusion, fairness, and whether rigid rules should outweigh individual needs.

When One of Us… Isn’t

I Reported Her. Was That Wrong?

Sympathy vs. Boundaries

Support groups thrive on trust and shared understanding, but navigating who truly belongs can be complicated. Where do you draw the line between following rules and showing compassion? Have you ever faced a situation where someone’s presence challenged a group’s boundaries?

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below — we want to hear your take on this delicate balance.

What do you think?

Written by Arsalan Sajid

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