AITA for ordering a takeaway after my in-laws ate my food and called me a picky eater?

Family barbecues are supposed to be about laughter, good food, and togetherness—but for me, it turned into a frustrating ordeal. Despite making the effort to bring food I could safely eat and share with everyone, my in-laws managed to turn it into yet another drama. What should’ve been a fun gathering left me hungry, judged, and unfairly labeled as “spoiled.”

A BBQ Gone Wrong

My Dietary Restrictions Aren’t a Secret

The Vanishing Act: Where Did My Food Go?

My Solution? A Takeaway.

Suddenly, I’m the Villain

The Aftermath: A “Spoiled Princess”

Inconsiderate In-laws

The Update

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At the end of the day, all I wanted was to eat without getting sick. Instead, I was left feeling disrespected and singled out for simply protecting my health. My in-laws might call me a “princess,” but I can’t help but feel like the real issue here isn’t my food choices—it’s their lack of consideration. Maybe ordering takeaway wasn’t the traditional thing to do, but was it worse than being forced to go hungry at my own family’s table?