AITA for telling my wife that I blame her for the fact my mom won’t visit?

Family dynamics can be tricky, but when household rules and values clash with visiting relatives, things can spiral fast. I never thought I’d be caught in the middle between my wife and my mom, but after years of tension over food, lifestyle, and boundaries, my mom finally said she won’t be visiting us anymore. Now, I’m left wondering if I crossed a line by telling my wife that I blame her for driving my mom away.

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I feel torn between the woman I married and the mother who raised me. I want harmony in my family, but it’s clear that my wife’s rigid rules and judgments have created an environment where my mom no longer feels welcome. Maybe I shouldn’t have said what I did, but part of me feels like someone had to call it out. Now I can’t help but wonder—was I wrong for blaming my wife, or was I just finally being honest about what’s been happening all along?

What do you think?

Written by Abeera Anwar

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