AITA for kicking my friend’s sister off my VPN in China?

Group travel often requires a balance of personalities, expectations, and mutual respect—especially when accommodations are made for individual needs. When dynamics shift due to added responsibilities or conflicting values, tensions can surface quickly.

Navigating cultural differences, personal boundaries, and interpersonal conflict while abroad can challenge even the strongest group cohesion.

🧳 “A Chaperone We Didn’t Ask For”

📵 “Cultural Sensitivity… or Just Control?”

🎭 “The Hanfu Incident”

Traveling with a group can bring out both the best and worst in people, especially when personal values and cultural sensitivities clash. While it’s important to accommodate individual needs, there’s also a limit to what should be tolerated in the name of keeping the peace.

Was setting a boundary like cutting off VPN access too harsh—or completely justified? I’d love to hear how others would have handled this situation. What would you have done? Share your thoughts in the comments.