Abeera Anwar
Weddings are supposed to be about love, unity, and honesty, right? But what happens when your partner wants to twist the truth in front of everyone you know? I (33F) thought planning our wedding would bring my fiancé (37M) and I closer, but instead, it’s tearing us apart. We just bought a house together—a huge milestone that cost me nearly all my savings—but now he wants to stand up at our wedding and pretend he bought it on his own. At first, I thought he was joking, but he was dead serious. And now I’m stuck wondering if I’m the bad guy for refusing to let him erase me from our story.
The Engagement Bliss… Until It Wasn’t
The House… and His “Confidence Boost”
The Argument That Shook Everything
The Insecurity Behind It All
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So here I am, with my fiancé giving me the silent treatment and acting like I’m destroying his “big moment” just because I don’t want him to lie. For me, this isn’t about ego—it’s about respect. I gave up so much to help us build this home, and the thought of sitting there on our wedding day, smiling while he takes full credit, feels like a betrayal. Maybe I’m overthinking, maybe it’s insecurity on his end, but I can’t shake the feeling that this little “confidence boost” comes at the cost of my dignity. So Reddit, AITA for making this my hill to die on?
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