AITA for bringing eggs to a vegan wedding?

Weddings are supposed to be about love, unity, and celebration—but sometimes, even the food can spark major drama. When dietary restrictions clash with strict personal values, emotions run high. That’s exactly what happened at my brother’s vegan wedding, where my attempt to safely manage my severe food allergies ended up leaving the bride furious and calling me selfish. Now I’m wondering—did I cross the line, or was I just trying to survive?

A Vegan Wedding with a Twist

Allergies That Change Everything

My Safe Solution: BYO Meal

The Bride’s Horror

“You Ruined My Day”

Disrespect or Survival?

Let’s check out how Redditors are reacting to this situation.

I didn’t intend to disrespect my brother or his new wife. I only wanted to avoid a serious medical emergency and enjoy the day with everyone else. But instead of understanding, I was accused of ruining the bride’s wedding. So now I’m left questioning: was I truly in the wrong for bringing my own safe food, or did the bride let her ideals overshadow compassion for my situation?