AITA for forcing my son to buy a more “appropriate” swimsuit?

Family vacations are supposed to be about relaxation, laughter, and making lasting memories—but sometimes they also highlight generational clashes and differing ideas of what’s “appropriate.” On our recent Caribbean cruise, my son’s choice of swimwear sparked a showdown that left him angry, me frustrated, and everyone questioning whether I had crossed a line as a parent.

Setting Sail on Troubled Waters

The “Flaunt It” Swimsuit

A Battle of Confidence vs. Decency

The $100 Swimsuit Saga

Who Pays the Price?

Apologize? For What?

The Final Question: Dad or Dictator?

Let’s hear the community’s take on this wild story.

Now I’m left wondering—did I go too far by forcing him to ditch the swimsuits he clearly felt confident in, or was I simply doing my job as a parent by drawing the line on what’s acceptable in public? To me, it felt like I was protecting him (and sparing others from an eyeful), but he sees it as me stifling his self-expression. So, AITA for making my son buy a more “appropriate” swimsuit?