Bringing a new life into the world is one of the most personal and emotional experiences someone can go through, but what happens when opinions clash over who gets to be there for that moment? My daughter-in-law, Katy, is 37 weeks pregnant with my very first grandchild, and instead of choosing my son — her husband — as her birthing partner, she chose her mother. I’ve always had a good relationship with Katy, but this decision has caused tension I never expected. I truly believe my son deserves to be in that delivery room, yet Katy insists it should be her mom. Now I’m starting to wonder if I’m being protective of my son… or just overstepping entirely.
The Baby Countdown


The “Discussion” I Don’t Believe

The Dinner Table Showdown


All Hell Breaks Loose

The Question

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Now, my son is furious with me, Katy is upset, and the joyous anticipation of welcoming my granddaughter feels clouded by this disagreement. I still believe my son should have the chance to witness his child’s birth, but both of them are telling me it’s their choice to make. I never wanted to cause a rift right before such an important moment in our family’s life, but am I wrong for thinking Katy’s decision is unfair to my son?
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