AITA for telling daughter I’m disappointed in her and won’t take her out to a second restaurant?

Family celebrations are supposed to bring everyone closer, but sometimes they can stir up unexpected drama. After my daughters’ dance team won a big competition, my dad generously offered to take us out to any restaurant of their choice. What should have been a joyful evening of pride and bonding quickly turned into tension when my daughters couldn’t agree on where to go. The fallout from that night has left me questioning whether I was too harsh—or simply teaching an important lesson.

A Family Celebration Turns Complicated

The Crab Leg Dream Finally Comes True

The Mexican Restaurant Showdown

Pouting at the Dinner Table

Dessert Denied and Tensions Rise

The Aftermath at Home

Lingering Resentment

Tough Love or Too Harsh?

What does Reddit have to say about all this? Let’s find out.

At the heart of it, this wasn’t just about crab legs or tacos—it was about sharing joy, compromise, and learning that special moments aren’t always centered around one person’s preferences. My older daughter finally got her long-awaited treat, while my younger one felt left out and frustrated. By holding my ground, I hoped to teach her the value of perspective and patience, even when things don’t go her way. Still, I can’t help but wonder: did I do the right thing, or should I have been more forgiving in the name of keeping the peace?

What do you think?

Written by Abeera Anwar

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