AITAH for telling my husband to not be surprised and wonder what happened when he loses me and our kids?

Marriage is supposed to be about partnership, love, and showing up for one another, especially when kids are involved. But what happens when your partner slowly checks out, choosing a screen over shared memories, and you’re left carrying the emotional weight of keeping the family together? That’s where I find myself now. I never imagined I’d be questioning whether I married a husband… or just a roommate with a gaming addiction.

The Husband Who Chose Games Over Family

The Parade That Became a Solo Show

A Valentine’s Gift… to Himself

The Art Fair Heartbreak

Donuts and Disappointment

The Confrontation That Fell Flat

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At the end of the day, my kids deserve a father who shows up for them, not someone who shrugs off milestones, ignores their excitement, and laughs when confronted about it. I can handle disappointment, but watching my children normalize his absence and even feel relieved when he doesn’t come along? That cut deeper than anything. So, Reddit, am I overreacting by calling him out… or is my husband the one truly failing our family here?

What do you think?

Written by Abeera Anwar

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