AITA for telling my girlfriend “I told you so” and then dumping her over her male best friend?

Sometimes, relationships don’t fall apart because of one big betrayal, but because of repeated red flags that one person refuses to acknowledge. That’s exactly what happened with me, my girlfriend Cindy, and her male best friend, Greg. From the start, I had my doubts about him—not because I don’t believe men and women can be friends, but because of the way Greg acted around her and toward me. I tried to warn Cindy, but she didn’t take me seriously. And eventually, the very thing I said would happen… did.

The Male Best Friend Reveal

Dinner With Greg: From Awkward to Infuriating

A Guy Full Of Red Flags???

The Uber Ride Argument

The False Promise

The Midnight Call

The Final Straw

Time to scroll through Reddit’s hot takes on this saga.

In the end, I couldn’t stay in a relationship where my boundaries weren’t respected, and my concerns were constantly brushed aside. Cindy may think I’m being cruel or “victim-blaming,” but the truth is, I saw this coming from miles away, and she chose to ignore it. I don’t regret walking away—because being right in the worst possible way was still better than being trapped in a relationship built on denial and disrespect.