AITA for working less after my divorce even though it means my ex gets less child support?

Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage—it often rewrites the rules of parenting, finances, and personal priorities. For years, I sacrificed time at home to earn a high income, believing I was doing what was best for my family. But after my ex-wife’s betrayal and our separation, I had to reevaluate everything, especially when it came to how much I work and what truly matters for my kids. Now, my decision to scale back on work and focus on being present is being painted as selfish, even though the truth is far more complicated.

The Price of Success

From $240K to $100K

The Child Support Shift

Ex’s Meltdown

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At the end of the day, money can buy comfort, but it can’t buy time, love, or stability. I refuse to burn myself out just to fulfill my ex’s expectations, especially when I’m already giving my kids everything they need. My children don’t just deserve financial support—they deserve a father who’s there. If choosing presence over paychecks makes me the villain in her story, then so be it.