AITA for Keeping My Abortion a Secret from My Boyfriend — Even Though It Was Before We Met?

In relationships, navigating personal history and transparency can often become a source of conflict—especially when one partner feels entitled to know everything about the other’s past. Questions of privacy, timing, and relevance frequently arise when sensitive topics—such as medical decisions made long before the relationship began—come to light.

While some believe complete honesty includes sharing past experiences regardless of context, others argue that not everything needs to be disclosed unless it directly impacts the present.

The Bombshell at the Dinner Table

“You Should’ve Told Me” vs. “It Wasn’t Yours to Know”

Is My Past Mine — Or Ours?

So, AITA here?

Situations like these raise difficult questions about personal boundaries, trust, and whether the past should always be up for discussion in a relationship. Does withholding certain information automatically make someone dishonest, or are there limits to what partners are entitled to know?

We’d love to hear your thoughts—do you think this was a breach of trust, or a case of unnecessary overreaction? Drop your opinions in the comments below.